So the peeps at work threw me the sweetest little bridal shower 'surprise'.
Note the surprise in inverted commas. Poor Sammu the receptionist forwarded me a mail (not intended for me) spilling the beans the day before the shower. She was nearly in tears so sorry was she.
Anywhoo, tis was a lovely afternoon, got really spoiled, and will now be smelling nice until my 50th wedding anniversary ;)